10 Tips You Need o Catch His Attention

There you are, sitting across the table from the dreamiest guy you’ve seen in a long while. He’s tall, dark, handsome (he can look however you want, don’t let me limit your imagination), witty and intellectual. In other words, he’s hot, smart and put-together. But, how do you begin to build a connection? How long should the small talk go on? When is it time to move on to deeper subjects? Should you have laughed harder at his joke? Have you complimented him enough? Would it help to buy him a drink? Sometimes, ladies, the problem is your thinking that there’s going to be a problem—don’t be pressured to be someone that you’re not, it won’t impress anyone. Believe it or not most men can pick up on a fake person, especially the executive-level men that we have as members, who’ve been dealing with all types of people for most of their careers. Instead, be the most confident, playful, capable version of yourself, and let your natural sexiness shine. Men want to feel like you’re really enjoying yourself, so don’t hold back from being open about how much you’re enjoying yourself. There’s really nothing to lose; either he’ll puff up with pride, or he’ll puff up with pride, whether the date leads to anything more or not. Alright, time for us to get down to business and share with you 10 tips to catch his attention. Let’s talk strategy.

1. Dress to impress.

I’m not saying to go stand over some drafty grates in a white dress, but you should dress like you’re confident enough to do it. Wear clothes that flatter your body type, maybe something that cinches in the waist to show off your figure. One of our partnered stylists would be happy to help you find your personal style, if that’s something you’ve struggled with in the past. You don’t have to show a lot of skin to turn him on; work with your best assets, and make them shine.

2. Flash those pearly-whites.

Just as important as the right outfit is your smile. Studies have shown that smiling makes you more attractive; it shows confidence, that you’re having a good time. The same study theorized that the reaction of attraction to a smile is instinctual, or evolutionary, the idea being that a smile is an indicator of good health— therefore, they are a more attractive option for a mate. I’m giving you full permission, from a guy for all other guys: take advantage of our baser instincts, and show us a smile. It works.

3. Use touch.

You don’t have to get overtly sexual to show him you think he’s good-looking. But if he makes you laugh, touch his hand or his forearm. If he makes a good point, grab his hand and give it a squeeze in agreement. Men respond to touch; it shows that you find them attractive enough to want to touch. It’s a guaranteed way to let him know that physical attraction isn’t going to be a problem.

4. Show interest in his career.

Men tend to take a fair amount of pride in their career life, especially the type of men that our company often takes on as members. Applaud his achievements, and if he seems a little shy about talking too much about himself, show him you’re interested by asking questions. If you can get him to open up to you, he’ll feel more comfortable, and once he’s done worrying about impressing you, maybe he’ll get the chance to notice how sexy you look in that dress.

5. Don’t drink too much.

You want to stay collected and level-headed as you get to know this individual. Drinking can definitely help the jitters, but you might not make the best first impression on your date if you take it too far. Also, any guy worth his salt wouldn’t want you to be too physical if you’re intoxicated, especially if he’s not; he wouldn’t want to feel like he was taking advantage of you, even if you mean to be flirtatious. You want to come across as accessible, poised, and put-together, so practice paced drinking to keep the night magical, and vomit-free.

6. Go in confident.

If you’ve been selected to become a free member, or if you’ve qualified for one of our memberships, know that we think you’re an interesting, high-caliber individual and a great catch. We’re professionals at finding out who people really are, so if we think that, you should too. The men that are enlisted at LMS are the most quality bachelor’s in your state, without question; we only accept the best of the best as members. Therefore, if you want to “wow” this handsome, successful guy sitting across from you, there needs to be a certain assurance in the way you carry yourself, in the way you speak of your successes and failures. Again, confidence is sexy, and men pick up on it instantly. It’s the quickest and most surefire way to spark interest in your date, so make sure you go into your date feeling your absolute best. That’s why we offer fitness training, hair and makeup artists, and stylists to our members, because we want them to be fully prepped and ready to be the best date in town. The whole point of all this is to say: believe in yourself. Does that sound corny, cliché and overused? Yes. Does the platitudinous nature of the statement make it any less true? No, of course not; trusting that you deserve only the best dates puts you in the driver’s seat. You’re the one calling the shots, because you have all the confidence in the world that you are an interesting, sexy, exciting person, and that sort of sureness of self is going to impress everyone you meet, romantically or otherwise.

With these tips and tricks to catch his attention, and you’ll have that stud eating out of the palm of your hand before you get to the second martini.